I gave it up too. Eleven years on the wagon, and still going strong! It's just not a lifestyle I want. Fortunately, I have a territorial ginger Geordie around the house to terrify the men away. Gave up fuckbuddies about four and a half years ago too, although that one's not really intended to be a lifetime thing.
Man, I misspent my youth SO hard. It was fantastic. My only regret is that I can't remember more of it! I was lucky with my guys, but I think at least a part of it is cultural. There's nowhere in the world that sexism isn't an issue, but by comparison, we have it pretty good in Wales (largely due to our matriarchal society, which neither centuries of English rule nor centuries of Christianity ever managed to beat out of us). Having come from the North of England, which is a bit culturally retarded, to say the least, Debs finds the difference in our men and their behaviour quite striking. And that incident really did end well - there was some pretty epic sex that night!
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Man, I misspent my youth SO hard. It was fantastic. My only regret is that I can't remember more of it! I was lucky with my guys, but I think at least a part of it is cultural. There's nowhere in the world that sexism isn't an issue, but by comparison, we have it pretty good in Wales (largely due to our matriarchal society, which neither centuries of English rule nor centuries of Christianity ever managed to beat out of us). Having come from the North of England, which is a bit culturally retarded, to say the least, Debs finds the difference in our men and their behaviour quite striking. And that incident really did end well - there was some pretty epic sex that night!